To a certain extent a man loses himself through connecting with his partner. ( Men Are from Mars Women Are from Venus Quotes )
John Gray
To find our loving feelings, many times we need first to feel all our negative feelings.
John Gray
To fully express their feelings, women assume poetic license and use various superlatives, metaphors, and generalizations. Men mistakenly take these expressions literally. Because they misunderstand the intended meaning, they commonly react in an unsupportive manner.
John Gray
To protect ourselves from feeling worthy of their disrespect or disapproval automatic defenses come up to resist their point of view. Even if we agree with their point of view, we may stubbornly persist in arguing with them.
John Gray
To receive support we not only have to teach our partners what we need but we also have to be willing to be supported.
John Gray
Treat her in ways you did at the beginning of the relationship.
John Gray
Venusians have different values. They value love, communication, beauty, and relationships. They spend a lot of time supporting, helping, and nurturing one another. Their sense of self is defined through their feelings and the quality of their relationships. They experience fulfillment through sharing and relating.
John Gray
We are unique individuals with unique experiences
John Gray
We mistakenly assume that if our partners love us they will react and behave in certain ways—the ways we react and behave when we love someone.
John Gray
When a man can listen to a woman’s feelings without getting angry and frustrated, he gives her a wonderful gift.
John Gray
When a woman’s wave rises she feels she has an abundance of love to give, but when it falls she feels her inner emptiness and needs to be filled up with love.
John Gray
When men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom.
John Gray
When men and women are single for a long time, the differences are sometimes not as defined.
John Gray
When misunderstandings arise, remember that we speak different languages; take the time necessary to translate what your partner really means or wants to say. This definitely takes practice, but it is well worth it. ( Men Are from Mars Women Are from Venus Quotes )
John Gray
When negative feelings are suppressed positive feelings become suppressed as well, and love dies.
John Gray
When she says “I feel like you are not even here,” he says “What do you mean I’m not here? Of course I am here. Don’t you see my body?
John Gray
When the student is ready the teacher appears. when the question is asked then the answer is heard. When we are truly ready to receive then what we need will become available.
John Gray
You cannot, nor should you ever try to, change your partner. That is his or her job. Your job is to change the ways you communicate, react, and respond to your partner.
John Gray
